I don't know if it's just me, the flowerchild I am, or if it's the same to everyone, but organizing a wedding, our wedding, has been a path of personal growth. I've learned a couple of things, so it feels right to end this series of post with a sappy and retorical upload. There's plenty of ideas of "family" around and, as long as they make you happy, they're all fine. My idea of family has always been quite a "big" one, which doesn't (only) mean a big number of people, but more like, a number of people always updated about anything and everyone. A number of people with things to say, or at least that feel free to speak their mind at any time. I know that to some people this description equals a nightmare. Sometime it is. But now I'm used to it and I actually like it. So what? What does one learn from a wedding? To compromise, to reconsider, to realize that (at least for us) it's not just about two people getting married, but two families getting together, you learn to stand your